Tuesday, April 7, 2015

The hot chick standards

To guys and girls there is a standard for talking to someone good looking or someone you like. You cannot like the profile picture and if you just added the person you definitely cannot like any pictures. Why is that? It was explained to me that it looks like you are thirsty the basic word for someone who is trying to hard to get someone to date or sleep with them. Does it really help to hold back on what you want to do and to not initiate a conversation because of it. Don't you lose any type of hope that could have been with that person? Isn't it odd to believe that it is okay not to hit them up because you are afraid of some rules. I believed in this rule for a long time before I was alone for a year wanting some friendship. I find that it is better to keep talking to them because sometimes that other person wants to talk to you. We the person who likes that person will never know because we believe that we would bother them. I am single and it is not something I try to be, but I still have that shyness within me. I talk to others so I can make friends because at this point being lonely is not cool. I wish I can just talk to the girl I like one day and tell her I like her, but I am cool just talking to the girls that I know at the moment.

Truthfully

We detect lies in any place that we visit and we cannot detect the lies that we make. In our lies we believe what we are doing is what is best for us. I for instance, cannot see that I lie to myself and use the word freedom to keep me going. I want to explore the world and find out what is in that new part that is old to others. It can have the same struggles that my world has, but the surrounds are completely didn't. We learn from the mistakes the world gives its occupants. There are also gains that we can learn and bring back to our small little world. The whole world needs to mix together and see if we can fight what plagues us. I need to take in my mistakes and make it something that people like. That is my small truth.