Gay?

     I shouldn't really hang out with him because he is gay. I would NEVER have thoughts like this because I don't have anything against gay people. There isn't anything wrong with gay people or transgender people. One of my roommates is gay and the other one is straight, I am closer to my gay roommate. We have a lot in common, I don't like guys as much as he does by the way. Tonight I told him that I wasn't a feminist, but I'm pro-women. He made me realize that I was a feminist. I was raise in a single parent household by my mother and there are more women, than men in my family. Like I said I am not a picture perfect heterosexual male. I treat everyone equally, it wasn't how I was raised, but I kind of saw that if you treated someone differently, that they wouldn't like that. They want to be treated the same way you treat others, but we put on our mask and act like they are special.
     My generation isn't the best, but there are people in my generation that don't care about race, sex, filtering, and I like that. We want to be individuals and if we try to follow a schematic that was given to us, then we aren't unique at all. We aren't really, us at all.
     I have dealt with a transgender woman before and the reason we don't talk is because of her. I found out she was a transgender in a very revealing way, but I wasn't ignorant. I had never really experienced being with a transgender woman before, so I was curious. I wanted to be friends, but every time I went over, she wanted to try something. I was not ready to start something like that and I understand that you are a woman, but to someone that has never experienced something like this, you have to give me some time to adjust. I know I am irresistible to every sex, but I am a friendly person, and some times signals get misread.
     I am a straight, black man telling you that gay people are awesome people, and that they should be treated the same way you treat others. If you treat everyone like dirt, I doubt you have friends, but I guess there will be someone out there for you. Tune in to the next episode when we talk about S & M.